These words, used to excuse vile language about women during the 2016 election, point to a deep historic conflict of values. It’s not just about how men behave: Throughout human history, worldviews based in domination and in collaboration have been in tension. Today, the contrast between these worldviews are as clear as they have ever been. From the simplest interactions between individuals to international relations, the will to dominate seems to be everywhere. How do Unitarian Universalist values call us to respond?